Dating with herpes

Learning you have genital herpes can be devastating. That’s particularly true when your love life is in flux. When someone is first diagnosed, the thought of dating with herpes can fill them with horrible anxiety. They may wonder if they will ever find love again.

Why is dating with herpes so stressful? After herpes diagnosis, people may be worried about being judged. They may be scared they could spread herpes to their future partners. They may simply be terrified about how they are going to face the world. Fortunately, it turns out that most of the time dating with herpes isn’t nearly as scary as worrying about it.

Herpes is Extremely Common.

The truth is that herpes is extremely common. Genital herpes affects at least 20% of the population at some point during their lives. This means that most people already know one or more people with herpes. They may even have it themselves. By and large, no matter how “icky” you may think a disease is, it’s hard to be judgmental towards someone you love if you find out they have it.

People May Not Be So Quick To Judge

People often worry that friends and future partners will judge them if they find out they have herpes. And, in fact, sometimes they do. People can be quite cruel to someone after herpes diagnosis. However, they’re just as, if not more, likely to be kind.

As for potential partners, if they start getting mean, you might want to ask them if they’ve been tested. If they haven’t, they may have the virus and not know about it.

Some People May Reject You.The Right Person Won’t

The truth is, some people will reject you when they find out you have herpes.  You may try the following tips:

  1. talk about your diagnosis early,
  2. have information handy so that you can talk honestly about the actual risks and concerns of the disease,
  3. are willing to do what you can to reduce the chance you will spread herpes to your partner,

… then being diagnosed with herpes is not the end of the world.

I know numerous people with genital and oral herpes who are open about disclosing their condition. Most of them have active, happy dating and sexual lives. The truth is, it’s so hard to meet the right person that dating with herpes makes it only the tiniest bit harder. Life after herp

Try Herpes dating  Sites if you can not handle rejection well

Many people with Herpes choose to seek partners who already have the virus or already accept those with the virus. Having Herpes in common creates an initial sense of camaraderie, eliminates the possibility of rejection due to the virus, and makes the “I have something to tell you” conversation easier or unnecessary.

There are a number of sites for people with people. Some of them have been been online for over 17 years. Check the review of the reviews of popular herpes dating sites if you want to try on.e.

 

 

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